A lot of human beings get stalled in their life expressions waiting for closure. They feel if they can just have one more conversation, make a person see how they feel, or get an apology of some sort, they will be able to get on with their lives. This is rarely successful and we will tell you why.
If you have had an ending with a person in your life, it is because you have shifted out of energetic resonance with them. They could not give you what you needed any longer, and your relations with them have ended. If they couldn’t give you what you needed emotionally when you were together, it is even less likely that they will suddenly be able to do so when you are apart.
Many times, the person who wants closure really isn’t seeking closure at all, but rather a continuation of the relationship in order to avoid dealing with the pain or discomfort of the situation. But the main reason why trying to get closure from another is rarely successful is because it is making yourself dependant on another for your healing, which simply isn’t how healing works. Waiting for someone to give you closure is giving your power away.
Closure, true closure, must come from within, Dear Ones. It comes from truly acknowledging that particular phase of your life is over, and it is time to move on. The closure you seek occurs when you stop resisting the situation, move into acceptance and back into the flow of your life, and the only one who can decide to do that is you. ~Archangel Gabriel