16 Sep Daily Message ~ Tuesday September 16, 2014
So many humans have developed elaborate habits to avoid taking the risk of speaking their truth. They expect people to know how they are feeling. They drop hints. They become moody. They expect people to figure it out. This is a faulty system that is rarely effective. Let us explain why.
You are, each and every one of you, in charge of you. You cannot be responsible for another person’s wellness, and to try to be is to take your focus off the only thing you do have control over, which is yourself. Expecting others to watch your every move to get clues as to how you feel and what you might need, is encouraging them to disempower themselves by putting their focus on you. It is also giving your own power away because your satisfaction and comfort is dependant upon another’s behaviour.
Dear Ones, you will find your lives so much simpler if you become self responsible. Speak your truth. If you need help ask for it. Stop before you agree to do something and ask yourself whether it is something you really wish to do or not. Make other people responsible for their own needs and happiness, as well. Help, if asked and if it is appropriate, other than that, honour others in their own mastery and choices.
Do you see? There is so much room for misinterpretation when you are not speaking your truth and your needs clearly, because people can only see things through their own filters. Truth, transparency, honour and integrity are the cornerstones of clear communication, which paves the way for smoother tomorrows. ~Archangel Gabriel