09 Feb Daily Message ~ Monday February 9, 2015
Many of you, after years of disappointment and hurt, see relationships as being hard, frustrating and exhausting. Hear us when we say that your relationships do not need to be this way.
The most valuable thing you can do to shift your relationships into something that honours and uplifts all involved, is to make self love a priority. All great changes begin within, and having an unconditionally loving, supportive and accepting relationship with yourself is the best way to shift out of the unfulfilling pattern you’ve been in.
Once you’ve shored up your self love and acceptance, look for relationships that support you in being your best, most shining you. Does this relationship give you the freedom to follow your passions and thrive? Make sure your new partner has a matching level of integrity to yours – in the long run, differing levels of integrity will make a relationship unsustainable.
Choose your new partner based on the reality of how they behave right now, not their potential. Many loving souls get drawn into relationships to be of service, to rescue another, which, of course, is not a true, mutually supportive partnership, at all. Can you really accept this person as they really are? Does this relationship foster the growth and expansion of both people? Because if growth stops in either person, the relationship will no longer serve a purpose.
Dear Ones, it is time to let your love relationships reflect the balance, unconditional love, support, honour, acceptance and unity consciousness you’ve been working so hard to move into yourself. If you do, you will find them to be the truly satisfying experience you always knew they could be. ~Archangel Gabriel