Dear Ones, you simply cannot make changes by pushing against what is unwanted. To do so keeps you engaged in the very essence of what you are trying to move beyond. True, lasting change comes from creating a foundation that supports what it is you wish to experience, and from there the rest will come automatically and naturally, with ease and flow.
Let us give you an example. You cannot create the energy of patience by pushing against impatience. Pushing against anything is sure to get you more of the same. Impatience indicates a lack of acceptance, which is the essence of what you are looking for.
Acceptance is a wonderful energy that will lead to many of the attributes you are seeking. Acceptance is a demonstration of faith and trust, an anti-dote to judgment, and an anchor of peace. It is the addition of complete acceptance that makes love unconditional.
So, Dear Ones, if there are recurring elements in your life that you would like to change, we suggest you look for the base element of acceptance and see if that is what is missing, for once you embrace the divine perfection of all, there really is nothing left to push against. ~Archangel Gabriel