One of the most empowering things you can do is to realize that every last thing you desire you can give to yourself. This does not mean that you are doomed to loneliness – quite the opposite! When you step into giving yourself everything you need, you can only attract more of what you hold.
Let us give it to you this way. If you were hungry and had a basket full of food available to you, would you wait for someone to come put the food in your mouth? If you did, not only would you never be satisfied, you would only attract more people who were waiting to be fed, who were too weak to give anything to you or unwilling to share because they were starving. But if you fed yourself and were satisfied and sated, you would attract more people with full baskets who were also satisfied, who would freely share with each other because they were whole and healthy.
Your perceived lack of anything is not a sign for you to seek it externally, it is a sign that you are yearning for your own loving care. It is through tender, loving, self-responsibility that you will finally have more of what is desired drawn to you. You might think of it as mindfully adding to your own treasure chest of creation. ~Archangel Gabriel