Surrender is how your soul leads you to expansion, acceptance, and creation. Control is how your ego keeps you in constriction, resistance, and stagnation. Which one do you think really expresses who you are and what you wish to experience?
There is a fallacy that staying the same creates comfort. Not so, Dear Ones! You are beings of flow and self expression. Resistance to that natural state of being will always create deep discomfort. This is not to say that you cannot have consistency in your life. You are an energetic creator, and as such you will absolutely have your preferences. You decide what you want to take with you through your appreciation.
Allowing yourself to stay in the movement of the flow lets the universe support you continuously with energies that match your unfoldment and evolution, and that is when true comfort, satisfaction, and joy become sustainable parts of your experience. ~Archangel Gabriel