Daily Message ~ Thursday July 13, 2017

People have an idea that boundaries are static and unmoving. In reality, boundaries are much more effective when they are malleable. There will be times when you need more self care. There will be other times when others need more care. If you are making decisions based on what will be most empowering to everyone involved, you will find a healthy balance and flow that allows you to give and receive, and serve with an appropriateness that honours all. ~Archangel Gabriel

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Daily Message ~ Wednesday April 19, 2017

Many of you have swung wildly from selflessness (which excludes the self) to the other end of the spectrum to a self love practice which also involves separation. It is good to experience both extremes, for you are gathering all of the information required to find balance and inclusion with your love practice. Dear Ones, the true expression of love is never separating. It is always inclusive, supportive, safe, healthy, and nurturing. Self love is simply making yourself equally deserving of the love and care you so beautifully give others. Healthy boundaries, acceptance, and balance keep the flow open and […]

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Daily Message ~ Sunday February 12, 2017

All great changes happen a little bit at a time. If you find an area of your life very out of balance, (common examples are the areas of self love, giving/receiving, relationship dynamics, and appropriate boundaries, or any other area where you consistently give your power away), it is very stressful, daunting, and often unrealistic to expect yourself to suddenly swing into a perfectly healthy expression of that particular area. It took a while to get that out of balance so it will likely be too much to expect yourself to right it all in one swoop. But what you […]

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Daily Message ~ Tuesday January 31, 2017

Dear Ones, in order to be loving it does not mean you need to throw out your personal boundaries. Far from it! Unconditional love honours everyone. It is not loving to yourself to accept abuse, nor is it loving to the abuser to allow them to continue in behaviour that does not honour them, either. If someone cannot treat you with love and respect it is healthy and loving to all involved to move them to a safe distance until new behaviours and patterns can be established. As your own loving parent, guide, and best friend, it is perfectly appropriate […]

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Daily Message ~ Saturday January 14, 2017

Dear Ones, if you have had trouble with healthy boundaries in the past and are wishing to learn the art of speaking up for yourself, making a plan ahead of time can be very helpful. If you are wishing to move into healthier relationships with others who have not been respectful, it is likely that you are well aware of the pattern that you are in that you would like to shift out of. Planning ahead can be a wonderful first step. Often when someone treats you in a way that you are not comfortable, it can make you feel […]

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