02 Nov Daily Message ~ Monday November 2, 2026

Many of you are experiencing changes in your relationships. You are having more clarity about what is acceptable for you, what no longer matches you, what is in line with your personal integrity and your latest level of attainment.

What we see so many human beings getting caught up on is waiting for an apology. You stay in situations much longer than is necessary waiting for an apology or some kind of acknowledgement to give you closure. Allow us to explain why this may not give you the results you desire.

First, we would like to point out that you do not need another person to give you closure. Closure is the gift you give yourself when you realize all healing is internal and is a decision to let the situation go. Let us give it to you this way.

Imagine you are holding a balloon. The balloon represents the wound you have that you would like to release. If you are waiting for another to give you closure it would be the same as waiting for them to come cut the ribbon to release the balloon.

Even if they did, you would still be holding part of the wound in the form of the ribbon you still have in your hand. Or you could simply decide you’ve held onto it long enough, that it is time for you to release the balloon along with the ribbon that kept it tethered to you, and move on.

Do you see? Closure, Dear Ones, is the gift you give yourself. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young